Tuesday, 25 April 2017
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Ancient Iran also have a unique way of looking at spiritual awakening and enlightenment. To achieve awakening, it is important to attain spiritual perfection and later on immortality of the soul.
Spiritual strength is also important in realizing God.
In Tibet, interestingly the making of the thangkas paintings is supposed to lead to developing attitudes like peacefulness, patience, perseverance, concentration, self-development and spiritual enlightenment.
Thangkas paintings are similar to the art of pata chitra, which is very much known in India as early as 1st century. The ancient practices are still being used until today.
Whether these rituals are credible and applicable until now, most of the indigenous tribes who have started these rituals are still practicing and believing them until now.
Spiritual awakening is not only achievable by undergoing different rituals among different regions, this inner and self-communication should start from the person looking for spiritual awakening.
Sunday, 16 April 2017
Sunday, 16 March 2014
5 Secrets of Seduction to Arouse Your Partner
There are many ways to express love to your partner other than quoting
the actual words "I Love You". Sometimes the "fizz" can easily evaporate
in our relationship so the feeling of your heart pounding with the
excitement is no longer felt.
So, how do we get back that love of warm feelings that wrap around us and penetrate our thoughts? Many say actions speak louder than words so here are listed 5 secrets of seduction to help you on your way.
So, how do we get back that love of warm feelings that wrap around us and penetrate our thoughts? Many say actions speak louder than words so here are listed 5 secrets of seduction to help you on your way.
1 - Flirt
This is a light-hearted seduction with the intent of conveying love; so why not send a sexy text message? This reminds the other person that you are thinking about her/him. It also increases the intensity of love so that you actually look forward to seeing each other when you return home from work.2 - Candles
According to Feng Shui, the seduction candle is red and the ingredients are musk, patchouli, pine, cedar and juniper. This secret of seduction can put back the romance in your relationships. Why not turn off the lights and cover your room with lighted scented candles. The extra effort goes a very long way!3 - Food
It is said that "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach," however this is now thought to be the secret of successful seduction of women too. Show your love by setting up a surprise dinner for two. Add flowers, soft music and incense to create a seductive love nest. Aphrodisiac foods such as oysters, chili, chocolate, figs, honey and walnuts are said to aid in the stimulation of your loved ones hormones.4 - Love Letters and Poems
Why not leave a note for your loved one? This can be posted in the bathroom or kitchen before you leave to work. You could also leave a nice love poem under the pillow so that your partner finds this at night before bedtime or first thing in the morning. This will stir up the feeling of love in the privacy of your bedroom as well as in your relationship. Inspiration can be taken from music or poem books.5 - Get Away
There can be a lot of distractions in your relationship such as work or children. There are many short breaks available for the week-end or just for a day. You may arrange a trip to the Health Spa or a Hotel so that you are in a different environment where you can both relax and concentrate on each other.Wednesday, 23 November 2011
4 Ways to Improve Your Communication Skills and find a date.
Have you ever been to a function in a room full of strangers and found yourself lost for words? It can be a very lonely experience, especially if you intend to date.
The art of introducing yourself to others and creating small talk may come naturally for some, but most people confess to feeling shy, embarrassed and don’t know where to start. Your inner ambitions are crying out for you to relate to others – just as other people are deeply interested to know you.
The key to knowing where to start is to understand the four levels of communication.
1. Small Talk
When you meet someone for the first time, the safest place to start is to talk about surface issues. For instance, make a comment about the weather, current events or the surroundings you are in.
This is called “small talk”, and is used to “size up” the other person to determine the comfort zone between the two of you. There is no need to disclose any personal information with the other person at this stage, as this initial interaction assists you to determine how “safe” they are on your first meeting.
If you are comfortable engaging each other at a surface level you can easily slip into the next level of communication: fact disclosure.
2. Fact Disclosure
This level of communication is slightly deeper than small talk in that you disclose facts about yourself without triggering topics of emotional interest.
The purpose of fact disclosure is to find out if you have something in common. You can use these common areas to build a bridge of friendship later on. You may want to talk about your career or occupation, hobbies, where you live, etc.
Avoid topics like marriage and divorce, politics, sex and religion in this second level of communication. With a little creative thinking, and the use of open-ended questions, you should easily find a topic that interests you both.
If you find a topic of mutual interest then you may progress to the next level of communication: sharing viewpoints and opinions.
3. Share Viewpoints and Opinions
Once you have established that the other person is “safe” through small talk, and have found areas of common interest, you can build rapport by sharing your opinions and viewpoints.
By sharing your viewpoints and opinions you allow yourself to become vulnerable to the scrutiny and objections of the other person, so you would only enter this level of communication once you were comfortable that you both share positive feelings through the first two levels.
Some people give an opinion about politics or religion as their starting point at this level. But you may firstly want to comment on the things you have in common that you found through fact disclosure. This is a safe place to start.
Be prepared to listen to the opinions of your new friend. It is just as important to listen to their viewpoint as much as you expect them to listen to yours. This will enable your friendship to survive.
Make sure you don’t use your opinions as a form of “character assassination” of other people. You may be thought of as a negative person and this may cause your new friend to distance himself/herself from you.
Over time you will learn to find a safe distance in your communication levels, and if you are forming a bond of friendship you may eventually enter into the fourth level of communication: sharing personal feelings.
4. Share Personal Feelings
Only solid friendships survive time to enter the fourth level of communication. After building upon trust, finding things in common and listening to the viewpoints and opinions of others, you may be able to share your personal feelings.
This is where an acquaintance becomes a genuine friend. You know that despite having differing opinions and viewpoints you can trust your friend’s judgement, and may go to them for advice.
Things of deep value to you can be shared without feeling threatened. You listen closely to each other without the need to “solve” your friend’s problem. You are happy to reflect their feelings back to them – forming a bond of empathy and compassion between the two of you.
At this level of communication, it is important that you provide a little distance between yourself and your friend. If the distinction between yourself and your friend becomes unrecognizable, it is possible for your relationship to go sour. If you know how to handle your own feelings, attitudes and behaviors while maintaining your friendship at this level, you will build a successful friendship that can last a lifetime.
By using these four levels of communication with prospective 'dates' you will find that they will become interested in you and want to get to know you all the more.
The art of introducing yourself to others and creating small talk may come naturally for some, but most people confess to feeling shy, embarrassed and don’t know where to start. Your inner ambitions are crying out for you to relate to others – just as other people are deeply interested to know you.
The key to knowing where to start is to understand the four levels of communication.
1. Small Talk
When you meet someone for the first time, the safest place to start is to talk about surface issues. For instance, make a comment about the weather, current events or the surroundings you are in.
This is called “small talk”, and is used to “size up” the other person to determine the comfort zone between the two of you. There is no need to disclose any personal information with the other person at this stage, as this initial interaction assists you to determine how “safe” they are on your first meeting.
If you are comfortable engaging each other at a surface level you can easily slip into the next level of communication: fact disclosure.
2. Fact Disclosure
This level of communication is slightly deeper than small talk in that you disclose facts about yourself without triggering topics of emotional interest.
The purpose of fact disclosure is to find out if you have something in common. You can use these common areas to build a bridge of friendship later on. You may want to talk about your career or occupation, hobbies, where you live, etc.
Avoid topics like marriage and divorce, politics, sex and religion in this second level of communication. With a little creative thinking, and the use of open-ended questions, you should easily find a topic that interests you both.
If you find a topic of mutual interest then you may progress to the next level of communication: sharing viewpoints and opinions.
3. Share Viewpoints and Opinions
Once you have established that the other person is “safe” through small talk, and have found areas of common interest, you can build rapport by sharing your opinions and viewpoints.
By sharing your viewpoints and opinions you allow yourself to become vulnerable to the scrutiny and objections of the other person, so you would only enter this level of communication once you were comfortable that you both share positive feelings through the first two levels.
Some people give an opinion about politics or religion as their starting point at this level. But you may firstly want to comment on the things you have in common that you found through fact disclosure. This is a safe place to start.
Be prepared to listen to the opinions of your new friend. It is just as important to listen to their viewpoint as much as you expect them to listen to yours. This will enable your friendship to survive.
Make sure you don’t use your opinions as a form of “character assassination” of other people. You may be thought of as a negative person and this may cause your new friend to distance himself/herself from you.
Over time you will learn to find a safe distance in your communication levels, and if you are forming a bond of friendship you may eventually enter into the fourth level of communication: sharing personal feelings.
4. Share Personal Feelings
Only solid friendships survive time to enter the fourth level of communication. After building upon trust, finding things in common and listening to the viewpoints and opinions of others, you may be able to share your personal feelings.
This is where an acquaintance becomes a genuine friend. You know that despite having differing opinions and viewpoints you can trust your friend’s judgement, and may go to them for advice.
Things of deep value to you can be shared without feeling threatened. You listen closely to each other without the need to “solve” your friend’s problem. You are happy to reflect their feelings back to them – forming a bond of empathy and compassion between the two of you.
At this level of communication, it is important that you provide a little distance between yourself and your friend. If the distinction between yourself and your friend becomes unrecognizable, it is possible for your relationship to go sour. If you know how to handle your own feelings, attitudes and behaviors while maintaining your friendship at this level, you will build a successful friendship that can last a lifetime.
By using these four levels of communication with prospective 'dates' you will find that they will become interested in you and want to get to know you all the more.
Sunday, 20 November 2011
Amuse-Bouche - Find Out About This Hot Trend in Entertaining
Amuse-bouche is becoming the hottest trend in foods and entertaining. If you enjoy offering your guests interesting fare that always gets raves you should consider learning about the seduction of amuse-bouche.
WHAT IS AMUSE-BOUCHE?
The word amuse-bouche is a french expression, literally translated "mouth-amuser". And no wonder - amuse-bouche are snappy, single bite creations which combine intense taste sensations in an artistic form.
Amuse-bouche is different from your typical hors d'oeuvres. It is most often offered when guests are seated at the table. Amuse-bouche not only offers guests something to taste while waiting for the dinner, but also sets the 'flavor' of the evening. The amuse-bouche should compliment the dinner as well as give guests a sample of the quality of the meal to come.
WHAT CAN I MAKE FOR AMUSE-BOUCHE?
Amuse-bouche concentrates on flavor; often combining simple, intense flavors alongside rich, multi-faceted ones. The focus is on savoring and appreciating the full flavor of a single bite; much as you savor the intensity of a shot rather than having a full cup.
The amuse-bouche can be a combination of bite size, single ingredient bites arranged artfully on a plate or a combination of flavors offered as one serving on a Chinese spoon. You may also choose a rich, flavorful soup (such as vichyssoise) presented in a shot glass along with a spoon.
The key to a good amuse-bouche is quality ingredients. Whether you're offering simple mandarin slices alongside a savory salmon mousse or a skewered shrimp with a complex marinade, you will want to use the highest quality and most decadent ingredients you can obtain.
PRESENTATION
Second only to quality ingredients and full flavor is presentation. Amuse-bouche follows the French tradition of artistic presentation. Find amuse-bouche ideas online and take note of the visual presentation. While not complex, the resulting impression is one of style and attention to details. Garnish sparingly and preferably use a simple white plate for optimum presence.
If you are so inclined you may wish to entertain your guests with a variety of amuse-bouche at an evening gathering rather than simply a prelude to a sit down dinner.
You may also choose to compliment your amuse-bouche with a well chosen wine. Some recipes will indicate a suitable wine or you can base your selection on the dominating flavor of the amuse-bouche.
There are several fine recipe books to guide you as you begin exploring the pleasures of amuse-bouche, but let your creative spirit shine as you take inspiration from the simple pleasures of flavor and entertaining and create your own unique 'mouth-amusers' for your guests.
WHAT IS AMUSE-BOUCHE?
The word amuse-bouche is a french expression, literally translated "mouth-amuser". And no wonder - amuse-bouche are snappy, single bite creations which combine intense taste sensations in an artistic form.
Amuse-bouche is different from your typical hors d'oeuvres. It is most often offered when guests are seated at the table. Amuse-bouche not only offers guests something to taste while waiting for the dinner, but also sets the 'flavor' of the evening. The amuse-bouche should compliment the dinner as well as give guests a sample of the quality of the meal to come.
WHAT CAN I MAKE FOR AMUSE-BOUCHE?
Amuse-bouche concentrates on flavor; often combining simple, intense flavors alongside rich, multi-faceted ones. The focus is on savoring and appreciating the full flavor of a single bite; much as you savor the intensity of a shot rather than having a full cup.
The amuse-bouche can be a combination of bite size, single ingredient bites arranged artfully on a plate or a combination of flavors offered as one serving on a Chinese spoon. You may also choose a rich, flavorful soup (such as vichyssoise) presented in a shot glass along with a spoon.
The key to a good amuse-bouche is quality ingredients. Whether you're offering simple mandarin slices alongside a savory salmon mousse or a skewered shrimp with a complex marinade, you will want to use the highest quality and most decadent ingredients you can obtain.
PRESENTATION
Second only to quality ingredients and full flavor is presentation. Amuse-bouche follows the French tradition of artistic presentation. Find amuse-bouche ideas online and take note of the visual presentation. While not complex, the resulting impression is one of style and attention to details. Garnish sparingly and preferably use a simple white plate for optimum presence.
If you are so inclined you may wish to entertain your guests with a variety of amuse-bouche at an evening gathering rather than simply a prelude to a sit down dinner.
You may also choose to compliment your amuse-bouche with a well chosen wine. Some recipes will indicate a suitable wine or you can base your selection on the dominating flavor of the amuse-bouche.
There are several fine recipe books to guide you as you begin exploring the pleasures of amuse-bouche, but let your creative spirit shine as you take inspiration from the simple pleasures of flavor and entertaining and create your own unique 'mouth-amusers' for your guests.
Sunday, 6 March 2011
Listening To Elvis Presley Saved My Marriage
Listening To Elvis Presley Saved My Marriage
Our relationship was going through a very difficult time. She was accusing me, I was accusing her, we argued with each other constantly. We had been so very happy together and madly in love ever since we first met, but for some reason, in the last couple of years, probably due to work commitments and various other things, we just seemed to grow apart.
I wasn't having an affair with anyone and I am sure she wasn't either. Anyway, neither of us had the time any more, that was the problem, time! Then one day, on an odd day, I found time to relax while the house was quiet and empty. She was out shopping and I just decided to do absolutely nothing except chill out and listen to some music. I used to listen to music all the time. In fact, one of the most enjoyable things we used to do together was cuddle up in front of the fire and listen to music, maybe with a glass of wine or two, and kiss and cuddle like teenagers. But that seemed such a long time ago now.
Anyway, I had a look through the dusty music collection and found a few elvis albums. The first track I played was "Heartbreak Hotel" which didn't do much to lighten my mood. The next track was "Love Me Tender" and I could certainly relate to the lyrics of that song. Then I played "Suspicious Minds" and the words of this song really sank home. "We can't go on together, with suspicious minds"!
The more I listened to the songs of Elvis, the more they seemed to have a deep meaning to my present problems. The next song was "Are You Lonesome Tonight" and as I listened, my eyes started stinging, tears welling up inside, I was really getting emotional, which is something I never do, at least not while listening to music. As I sat there playing through my Elvis collections, every one of his songs seemed to be speaking directly to me. I could imagine some of the pain and upset Elvis must have gone through when he lost Priscilla. And as I continued to listen and compare my relationship problems with the problems of Elvis and Priscilla Presley, the next songs that played were "Got a Lot Of Livin' To Do" and "Teddy Bear". It was those last two songs that made me decide there and then to do something to save my relationship with the woman I loved. And yes, I still loved her and I was sure that she still loved me. All we had to do was get our priorities right. So from that day on, I worked fewer hours and spent as much time as possible with the woman I loved. Our relationship was eventually repaired and we rediscovered each other.
All of this because of and thanks to Elvis Presley. Thank you Elvis, thank you for helping me hang on to my own Princess, my very own Priscilla!
Elvis has not quite left the building! He lives on in our loving relationship!
Elvis Presleys songs and music are full of feeling. Every human emotion can be found in his songs, from "Gotta lot of livin' to do" to "Suspicious Minds" Listening to Elvis can certainly pull at your heart strings! http://elvis-presley.ok2b1.com
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Friday, 25 February 2011
Over Sixty Dating For Seniors
Not all that many years ago, people were considered quite old when they reached the age of sixty. In the past, those over sixty would be swept under the proverbial rug, that's no longer the case. Now, more seniors than ever are staying fit and active.
Add to that the major advances in nutrition and medicine and people are having a high quality of life as they get older. When compared to previous generations, senior citizens of today are much more vibrant and vital. But what if you are about that age and are looking for a romantic partner? To put it simply, over sixty dating can be a rewarding and a very fun experience.
According to Wendell K. Cribbs, the renowned internet author and relationship expert, no matter how old we are, dating and relationships are vital to a happy personal life and positive mental attitude. We need to foster intimate relationships, in spite of any anxiety or fear, and regardless of our age. In fact, the majority of the feelings of hesitancy are not based on fact or actual experience, but are rather contrived within their own mind.
To paraphrase Cribbs, he goes on to say, "Over sixty dating isn't something anyone has to be afraid of. To be sure, senior dating can be both fun and exciting. As we near retirement age, many of the problems faced by younger people that are dating are not much of a concern for seniors, if they are present at all. Choosing a career, starting a family, and many other issues just don't get in the way. That's one of the main reasons why over sixty dating can be more relaxed and not have as much pressure attached to it.
A sixty-six-year-old former office manager named Robert is happy being a part of the over sixty dating scene, but he didn't always feel that way. He explains that dating at 66 is more fun and has much less pressure than when he was younger. He further adds that he dated his wife for six years before they got married. And how things were more serious for them at that time.
They were happy and had good times together. When she passed away he said he wanted to "hide in my apartment" and had no desire to become involved with anybody ever again. But after about half a year, those close to Robert encouraged him to put aside his feelings of apprehension and get back into the social scene.
Cribbs explains that Robert's case is similar to many of those who are new to over sixty dating. He adds that trepidation and nervousness will be there at some level associated with dating again. While they all have plenty of life experience, most of them have been happily married for many, many years. This can make things a bit unsettling at first.
All of this is reassuring for any senior that wishes to establish a new and potentially loving relationship through over sixty dating. As the poet once said, "life is how you make it", and that's true no matter how young at heart you are.
Add to that the major advances in nutrition and medicine and people are having a high quality of life as they get older. When compared to previous generations, senior citizens of today are much more vibrant and vital. But what if you are about that age and are looking for a romantic partner? To put it simply, over sixty dating can be a rewarding and a very fun experience.
According to Wendell K. Cribbs, the renowned internet author and relationship expert, no matter how old we are, dating and relationships are vital to a happy personal life and positive mental attitude. We need to foster intimate relationships, in spite of any anxiety or fear, and regardless of our age. In fact, the majority of the feelings of hesitancy are not based on fact or actual experience, but are rather contrived within their own mind.
To paraphrase Cribbs, he goes on to say, "Over sixty dating isn't something anyone has to be afraid of. To be sure, senior dating can be both fun and exciting. As we near retirement age, many of the problems faced by younger people that are dating are not much of a concern for seniors, if they are present at all. Choosing a career, starting a family, and many other issues just don't get in the way. That's one of the main reasons why over sixty dating can be more relaxed and not have as much pressure attached to it.
A sixty-six-year-old former office manager named Robert is happy being a part of the over sixty dating scene, but he didn't always feel that way. He explains that dating at 66 is more fun and has much less pressure than when he was younger. He further adds that he dated his wife for six years before they got married. And how things were more serious for them at that time.
They were happy and had good times together. When she passed away he said he wanted to "hide in my apartment" and had no desire to become involved with anybody ever again. But after about half a year, those close to Robert encouraged him to put aside his feelings of apprehension and get back into the social scene.
Cribbs explains that Robert's case is similar to many of those who are new to over sixty dating. He adds that trepidation and nervousness will be there at some level associated with dating again. While they all have plenty of life experience, most of them have been happily married for many, many years. This can make things a bit unsettling at first.
All of this is reassuring for any senior that wishes to establish a new and potentially loving relationship through over sixty dating. As the poet once said, "life is how you make it", and that's true no matter how young at heart you are.
Sunday, 24 October 2010
6 Must-Do's When Writing Your Online Dating Profile
When you go job searching your resume is the top tool you use to land a job. And just like a resume portrays your attractiveness to potential employers, your online dating profile displays your attractiveness to potential suitors.
The profile is there to characterize your personality, experiences, desires, and expectations in the context of a seeker of companionship and love. Sure, pictures are the primary gatekeeper but once that’s triggered your profile is the deal clincher.
And good profile can even outweigh a picture that’s not up to Hollywood paparazzi snuff. The unvarnished truth is you can’t control how you look nearly as much as you control how you present yourself and how you come across to others.
So here goes:
1.- Don’t forget that you’re writing for both an audience and to one person.
Your profile should have some elements of mass appeal to attract readers. This can often be accomplished with a good headline which consists of intrigue, curiosity meshed with specifics.
If you’re stuck with writers block and imagination constipation, a good way to get started is to look at other profiles for inspiration. Pay attention to the styles that appeal to you. Are they funny, or revealing, or persuasive? By the same token, you’ll find those you don’t like, since they probably sound obnoxious or desperate or depressing. As you do so, think about the kind of person you would most likely respond to.
And always be yourself so you won’t regret it later as you twist and turn trying to fit an artificial persona.
Additionally, try not write your profile so it’s either too short or too long. This means that, like a woman’s skirt, it should be just “long enough”. Say what you have to say and say no more – don’t ramble on and manufacture words. Brainstorm things and then whittle it down to the essentials.
2.- Be detailed but concise. Avoid adjectives and specify with proper nouns and action verbs.
A good rule of thumb is to write like you talk. Pretend you’re having a conversation but cut out the “uhmms” and “ahhhs”. Always bear in mind that you’ll come across better if you’re not writing in a formal manner like one does on a job resume or professional correspondence.
And be specific in your writing. A good idea is to let the adjoining multiple-choice sections take care of all the adjectives describing you. That’s the place to mark down how you’re smart, funny, interesting, exciting and other subjective eye-in-the-beholder descriptive words.
It’s good to set scenes and be specific when talking about your experiences. Use nouns of places you’ve been or about interest you have – tell a tale about a bistro in Paris, not a trip to Europe. Talk about your water polo fame, not that you’re good at sports.
Use action verbs, too. You didn’t just visit, you “traveled” to exotic Bali to “explore” and “luxuriate and bask”. Then set a scene – in its “sun-drenched, soft sands” with a local drink that “lifted you” into a “state of unwary bliss”. Expressive writing will gain you a lot more readership and thus more interest and more results.
And never resort to a plain series of words like in a list – it can come across as lazy and isn’t at all descriptive.
3- Always remain fun and cheerful.
Don’t ever be a downer as it will surely doom your chances. This is especially important if your present situation or mood inhibits you form writing a friendly profile. The fact of the matter is, our current circumstances affect how we come across to others. If you just experienced a nasty break up or a similarly negative event, it will effect your attitude and your writing and thus poison the content of your profile.
Also, refrain form pouring your heart and soul into your profile. Honesty is good but diarrhea of the mouth and baring of your emotional center is not. In other words, save your problems and your issues for your shrink. Your profile should not serve as therapy. If this seems the case, you may need to wait a little while as you may not be ready yet to successfully create new friends and relationships.
Never resort to clichéd cop-out phrases like “my friends put me up to this”, I’m just here looking, or “I’m not sure what to think about this”. They’re generically over-used and make you look the same.
A great idea is to have a friend read your profile before you post it. You’ve been very close to it as the writer, so let someone a bit more detached and objective have a look a it.
4- Don’t be a show boat or act arrogantly.
There’s a difference between being confident and being cocky. Raising yourself by putting others down serves the opposite effect. It makes you appear to have low –esteem issues. The solution is to just not go there at all. Mind your own business and tend to your own positive character traits.
And if you come off as arrogant and snobby, that’s the kind of person you’ll have writing back in response – someone superficial and with questionable motives. Do you want a trophy wife or a sugar daddy or do you want to meet someone who shares similar interests and has an engaging personality.
5- Always be honest and truthful.
This is the biggest complaint among online companionship seekers. Woman are besieged by married men who don’t tell the “full” story until after they meet or they convince themselves since they’re a 5’-10” in flats, they can boast a more studly 6’-0”. Or when guys meet up with women who “have a few extra pounds” but the words fat and over-weight lend themselves to more accuracy or they’re picture was form 10 years ago and they “kind of” resemble it today.
Just know this – a liar now, a liar later. The best policy, since there are no character witnesses and you can’t police unethical practices, is to do your best to avoid them. One tactic that helps there is to not have a scarcity mentality online. Be deliberative, don’t jump at every Dick and Jane that you see or comes your way.
The only exception might be to fudge your age in the choice section to avoid being filtered out by a round number like 40 or 50. Of course, you must tell your truthful age in your profile and it shouldn’t stray to far from the limit.
6-Always proofread your work and TEST IT.
Simply knowing the difference between their and there can go a long way towards meeting Mr. or Mrs. Write….Right? Correct.
By testing, it’s meant that if you’re not getting a response, then try another approach. Change your headline, or relate some more experiences or interests. Look for implicitly negative vibes you may have overlooked. Insert some more paragraph breaks. Experiment. It’s only your love life, after all.
There you have six core principles and a handful of tips and tricks to write a better profile. Now, go hunt’em down all you online Casanovas.
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The profile is there to characterize your personality, experiences, desires, and expectations in the context of a seeker of companionship and love. Sure, pictures are the primary gatekeeper but once that’s triggered your profile is the deal clincher.
And good profile can even outweigh a picture that’s not up to Hollywood paparazzi snuff. The unvarnished truth is you can’t control how you look nearly as much as you control how you present yourself and how you come across to others.
So here goes:
1.- Don’t forget that you’re writing for both an audience and to one person.
Your profile should have some elements of mass appeal to attract readers. This can often be accomplished with a good headline which consists of intrigue, curiosity meshed with specifics.
If you’re stuck with writers block and imagination constipation, a good way to get started is to look at other profiles for inspiration. Pay attention to the styles that appeal to you. Are they funny, or revealing, or persuasive? By the same token, you’ll find those you don’t like, since they probably sound obnoxious or desperate or depressing. As you do so, think about the kind of person you would most likely respond to.
And always be yourself so you won’t regret it later as you twist and turn trying to fit an artificial persona.
Additionally, try not write your profile so it’s either too short or too long. This means that, like a woman’s skirt, it should be just “long enough”. Say what you have to say and say no more – don’t ramble on and manufacture words. Brainstorm things and then whittle it down to the essentials.
2.- Be detailed but concise. Avoid adjectives and specify with proper nouns and action verbs.
A good rule of thumb is to write like you talk. Pretend you’re having a conversation but cut out the “uhmms” and “ahhhs”. Always bear in mind that you’ll come across better if you’re not writing in a formal manner like one does on a job resume or professional correspondence.
And be specific in your writing. A good idea is to let the adjoining multiple-choice sections take care of all the adjectives describing you. That’s the place to mark down how you’re smart, funny, interesting, exciting and other subjective eye-in-the-beholder descriptive words.
It’s good to set scenes and be specific when talking about your experiences. Use nouns of places you’ve been or about interest you have – tell a tale about a bistro in Paris, not a trip to Europe. Talk about your water polo fame, not that you’re good at sports.
Use action verbs, too. You didn’t just visit, you “traveled” to exotic Bali to “explore” and “luxuriate and bask”. Then set a scene – in its “sun-drenched, soft sands” with a local drink that “lifted you” into a “state of unwary bliss”. Expressive writing will gain you a lot more readership and thus more interest and more results.
And never resort to a plain series of words like in a list – it can come across as lazy and isn’t at all descriptive.
3- Always remain fun and cheerful.
Don’t ever be a downer as it will surely doom your chances. This is especially important if your present situation or mood inhibits you form writing a friendly profile. The fact of the matter is, our current circumstances affect how we come across to others. If you just experienced a nasty break up or a similarly negative event, it will effect your attitude and your writing and thus poison the content of your profile.
Also, refrain form pouring your heart and soul into your profile. Honesty is good but diarrhea of the mouth and baring of your emotional center is not. In other words, save your problems and your issues for your shrink. Your profile should not serve as therapy. If this seems the case, you may need to wait a little while as you may not be ready yet to successfully create new friends and relationships.
Never resort to clichéd cop-out phrases like “my friends put me up to this”, I’m just here looking, or “I’m not sure what to think about this”. They’re generically over-used and make you look the same.
A great idea is to have a friend read your profile before you post it. You’ve been very close to it as the writer, so let someone a bit more detached and objective have a look a it.
4- Don’t be a show boat or act arrogantly.
There’s a difference between being confident and being cocky. Raising yourself by putting others down serves the opposite effect. It makes you appear to have low –esteem issues. The solution is to just not go there at all. Mind your own business and tend to your own positive character traits.
And if you come off as arrogant and snobby, that’s the kind of person you’ll have writing back in response – someone superficial and with questionable motives. Do you want a trophy wife or a sugar daddy or do you want to meet someone who shares similar interests and has an engaging personality.
5- Always be honest and truthful.
This is the biggest complaint among online companionship seekers. Woman are besieged by married men who don’t tell the “full” story until after they meet or they convince themselves since they’re a 5’-10” in flats, they can boast a more studly 6’-0”. Or when guys meet up with women who “have a few extra pounds” but the words fat and over-weight lend themselves to more accuracy or they’re picture was form 10 years ago and they “kind of” resemble it today.
Just know this – a liar now, a liar later. The best policy, since there are no character witnesses and you can’t police unethical practices, is to do your best to avoid them. One tactic that helps there is to not have a scarcity mentality online. Be deliberative, don’t jump at every Dick and Jane that you see or comes your way.
The only exception might be to fudge your age in the choice section to avoid being filtered out by a round number like 40 or 50. Of course, you must tell your truthful age in your profile and it shouldn’t stray to far from the limit.
6-Always proofread your work and TEST IT.
Simply knowing the difference between their and there can go a long way towards meeting Mr. or Mrs. Write….Right? Correct.
By testing, it’s meant that if you’re not getting a response, then try another approach. Change your headline, or relate some more experiences or interests. Look for implicitly negative vibes you may have overlooked. Insert some more paragraph breaks. Experiment. It’s only your love life, after all.
There you have six core principles and a handful of tips and tricks to write a better profile. Now, go hunt’em down all you online Casanovas.
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Saturday, 18 September 2010
Friends with Benefits - Can it work?
Is there ever such a thing as “No Strings Attached?” Can a friendship between two people withstand casual sex? Or is that just an idealistic concept?
One night stands aren’t as in as they used to be. Now lovers are coupling up for more long term sex. It’s called “Friends with Benefits”. They get all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. They start out as friends. They enjoy each other’s company and then one night start sleeping together.
They don’t date. It’s not a traditional “significant other” type relationship. In many cases, the other friends don’t even know about their sex on the side. It’s set up as a mutual gratification, friends helping friends arrangement.
What most Friends with Benefits fail to do is set up the rules. It generally starts out as either happenstance or perhaps a small dialog exchange, “I don’t have anyone, you don’t either, so let’s do it, no strings attached. What do you think?” It all sounds well in good; at least initially when both are hornier than a unicorn. But can friends who sleep together remain friends once it ends? Or is the start of mutual sex the start of the end of their friendship?
Sex creates a bond, no matter how discussed up front it is. Someone always gets hurt in the end of a no strings attached, Friends with Benefits arrangement. Booty Calls always start out with mutual orgasms as the sole purpose. Yet when two people share that kind of closeness, and if it's a recurring buddy booty call, then they spend time together. Someone is doing something very intimate with and to the other. Who isn’t always appreciative of a good orgasm?
One or both may know that they don't want a commitment and that's why the No Strings Attached agreement was conceived. But when the “ooh baby, ya that feels so good, I love what you do to me” occurs regularly, how can they NOT start to feel something for the other? One person will inevitably feel a stronger emotional bond than the other; it's not male/female bias. One will still only love the physical benefits and the other will enjoy the great sex so much that they get attached, even though they weren't looking for any relationship.
Or perhaps one person may have always been secretly attracted to the friend and knew the other didn't want a relationship, yet figured a Friends with Benefits arrangement was better than nothing. Hence they verbally agreed to the arrangement but emotionally they were already hooked.
Develop some rules before entering into any such arrangement. Consider these suggestions: No going out with each other unless it’s in a group situation or you know the night will end in sex, therefore the outing is part of foreplay, no public affection, no gifts and any other boundaries you want to instill. Before it starts, decide how it will end. If starting out as friends, the goal is to end as friends. If new love interests were previously discussed among friends, shouldn’t those types of conversations still be allowed?
Use your head to consider wisely what may be lost if you enter into a Friends with Benefits arrangement.
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One night stands aren’t as in as they used to be. Now lovers are coupling up for more long term sex. It’s called “Friends with Benefits”. They get all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment. They start out as friends. They enjoy each other’s company and then one night start sleeping together.
They don’t date. It’s not a traditional “significant other” type relationship. In many cases, the other friends don’t even know about their sex on the side. It’s set up as a mutual gratification, friends helping friends arrangement.
What most Friends with Benefits fail to do is set up the rules. It generally starts out as either happenstance or perhaps a small dialog exchange, “I don’t have anyone, you don’t either, so let’s do it, no strings attached. What do you think?” It all sounds well in good; at least initially when both are hornier than a unicorn. But can friends who sleep together remain friends once it ends? Or is the start of mutual sex the start of the end of their friendship?
Sex creates a bond, no matter how discussed up front it is. Someone always gets hurt in the end of a no strings attached, Friends with Benefits arrangement. Booty Calls always start out with mutual orgasms as the sole purpose. Yet when two people share that kind of closeness, and if it's a recurring buddy booty call, then they spend time together. Someone is doing something very intimate with and to the other. Who isn’t always appreciative of a good orgasm?
One or both may know that they don't want a commitment and that's why the No Strings Attached agreement was conceived. But when the “ooh baby, ya that feels so good, I love what you do to me” occurs regularly, how can they NOT start to feel something for the other? One person will inevitably feel a stronger emotional bond than the other; it's not male/female bias. One will still only love the physical benefits and the other will enjoy the great sex so much that they get attached, even though they weren't looking for any relationship.
Or perhaps one person may have always been secretly attracted to the friend and knew the other didn't want a relationship, yet figured a Friends with Benefits arrangement was better than nothing. Hence they verbally agreed to the arrangement but emotionally they were already hooked.
Develop some rules before entering into any such arrangement. Consider these suggestions: No going out with each other unless it’s in a group situation or you know the night will end in sex, therefore the outing is part of foreplay, no public affection, no gifts and any other boundaries you want to instill. Before it starts, decide how it will end. If starting out as friends, the goal is to end as friends. If new love interests were previously discussed among friends, shouldn’t those types of conversations still be allowed?
Use your head to consider wisely what may be lost if you enter into a Friends with Benefits arrangement.
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Monday, 23 June 2008
Calling Men - Know When And How To Call The Man In Your Life.
The Way You Handle Calls, Emails, and Text Messages Will Seriously Affect How Much Your Man Wants You!
"Hello..."
Have you ever hesitated before you dialed his number?
Have you ever made a phone call to a man and later regretted it?
We've all been there!
I'm Mimi Tanner, the author of Secrets of Flirting with Men and Man Mistake Eraser. I write a daily email advice column (see below) read by thousands of women all over the world. Most of the books I write are specifically written for women, because I have spent a lifetime studying and thinking about what makes a man attracted to a woman - and what makes a man stay with a woman.
What happens when you call - or don't call - the man in your life can truly make or break your relationship.
Calling Men is not an etiquette book or a business manual - this is a book to get to the truth of how to handle this oh-so-important part of your relationship with your man.
Fair Warning!
Some women are going to get just plain mad at me for daring to suggest that you should put some thought into how you handle phone calls with your man. They will loudly insist (and send me rude emails) that I should not have written this book because it shouldn't matter what happens on the phone. They want to be able to say and do anything that comes into their heads, and call their man ten times a day if they feel like it.
Tra-la-la, and yes, no one should ever get a flat tire, we should stay young forever, and the government should not tax us either - but that is not how life works in the real world!!
Many of these women will eventually, after a series of failed encounters and relationships with men, come unhappily to the realization that yes, it DOES matter, and these issues can make or break your relationship!
In Calling Men, I will show you the "whys" of everything I tell you to do, so you will understand why these methods and tips work. You'll understand the effect you have on a man when you don't call at the wrong time, and how your relationship is strengthened when he calls you. When you understand what happens in your man's mind, you'll instinctively pick up on these ways to act and react. These methods will become second nature to you very quickly - especially when you see how well they work!
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"Hello..."
Have you ever hesitated before you dialed his number?
Have you ever made a phone call to a man and later regretted it?
We've all been there!
I'm Mimi Tanner, the author of Secrets of Flirting with Men and Man Mistake Eraser. I write a daily email advice column (see below) read by thousands of women all over the world. Most of the books I write are specifically written for women, because I have spent a lifetime studying and thinking about what makes a man attracted to a woman - and what makes a man stay with a woman.
What happens when you call - or don't call - the man in your life can truly make or break your relationship.
Calling Men is not an etiquette book or a business manual - this is a book to get to the truth of how to handle this oh-so-important part of your relationship with your man.
Fair Warning!
Some women are going to get just plain mad at me for daring to suggest that you should put some thought into how you handle phone calls with your man. They will loudly insist (and send me rude emails) that I should not have written this book because it shouldn't matter what happens on the phone. They want to be able to say and do anything that comes into their heads, and call their man ten times a day if they feel like it.
Tra-la-la, and yes, no one should ever get a flat tire, we should stay young forever, and the government should not tax us either - but that is not how life works in the real world!!
Many of these women will eventually, after a series of failed encounters and relationships with men, come unhappily to the realization that yes, it DOES matter, and these issues can make or break your relationship!
In Calling Men, I will show you the "whys" of everything I tell you to do, so you will understand why these methods and tips work. You'll understand the effect you have on a man when you don't call at the wrong time, and how your relationship is strengthened when he calls you. When you understand what happens in your man's mind, you'll instinctively pick up on these ways to act and react. These methods will become second nature to you very quickly - especially when you see how well they work!
Interested?
Want to know more?
Just Click Here Now!
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Struggling for a great date idea?
If you are looking for a collection of expensive dates to really impress your sweetheart then this ISN'T IT. But if you want 100's of inexpensive dates that cost from $5-$20 then you have found a goldmine of information. Whether you want to make a big impression to secure a second date, put your relationship back on track or just have more fun, keep reading, as this may be the most important letter you ever read…
Dear Friend,
Did you know that while going out for dinner and a movie is one of the most popular dates, it is also one of the very worst dates you can go on? -- especially for couples in the early stages of dating!
Don't believe me?
Imagine this. You're sitting at a restaurant with a beautiful woman and everything seems to be going fine. But after ordering your meals, you realize you can't think of anything interesting to talk about. You try to think of something… anything!…
At that moment, your palms sweat, your heart thumps, and your mind begins to race at 100 miles an hour, as you notice her looking around the room disinterested.
You're losing her.
And after two hours filled with awkward silence and generic questions, you take her home…
…only to be struck with the cold sinking feeling that you blew your chances forever.
Still think dinner is a good idea?
Don't get me wrong, dinner can be great but it's just too hard to make a good impression over dinner.
And if you're always going on dinner dates with a long-term partner, it's likely that things are getting a little stale and you're dying to try something new.
Dinner dates are a bad idea! It's just too hard to make a good impression.
Either way, you want to keep having lots of fun with a special someone and you know that going on original dates is perhaps the very best tool to accomplish that.
But Finding Unique and Creative Date Ideas Is The Hard Part!
Let's face it, trying to come up with cool unique date ideas is tough!
Honestly, it could take you hours searching only to come up with average ideas like: "spend the day at the beach or cook dinner at home." These ideas are 'okay' but there are much better ideas.
And that's where I come in.
You see, after realizing that people are starving for new and refreshing ways to spend time together, I decided to sit down, recall and write down all the fun-filled dates I've had with my wife Athena over the years. The result is a quality collection of date ideas from friends, family and myself.
But Why Should You Listen To Me and My Dating Ideas?
My name is Michael Webb.
And for the last 12 years I've been teaching people how to have fulfilling and successful relationships that last a lifetime through the power of romance.
In fact, because of some of my dating and romance ideas, media around the world have taken to calling me "The World's Most Romantic Man," "America's Romance Expert," "Mr. Romance," "The Martha Stewart of Romance" and other interesting monikers.
I don't necessarily agree with the titles, but I do aim to be the world's most loving husband to my wife of 17 years, Athena.
Not to mention I have been featured in media countless times.
Including every major newspaper in the United States, dozens of magazines and over 500 radio and TV shows such as Oprah, The 700 Club and Men Are From Mars / Women Are From Venus, sharing my tips and secrets with millions of viewers worldwide.
In addition, I am also a bestselling author of 11 books on love, romance and relationships.
My first book, "The Romantic's Guide" is a national bestseller. It was released in February 2000 and is already in its sixth printing.
All in all, I am regarded in the media as one of the nation's top experts on love, dating and relationship matters. So YOU KNOW you're in good hands with my date ideas.
Want to know more? Click here!
Dear Friend,
Did you know that while going out for dinner and a movie is one of the most popular dates, it is also one of the very worst dates you can go on? -- especially for couples in the early stages of dating!
Don't believe me?
Imagine this. You're sitting at a restaurant with a beautiful woman and everything seems to be going fine. But after ordering your meals, you realize you can't think of anything interesting to talk about. You try to think of something… anything!…
At that moment, your palms sweat, your heart thumps, and your mind begins to race at 100 miles an hour, as you notice her looking around the room disinterested.
You're losing her.
And after two hours filled with awkward silence and generic questions, you take her home…
…only to be struck with the cold sinking feeling that you blew your chances forever.
Still think dinner is a good idea?
Don't get me wrong, dinner can be great but it's just too hard to make a good impression over dinner.
And if you're always going on dinner dates with a long-term partner, it's likely that things are getting a little stale and you're dying to try something new.
Dinner dates are a bad idea! It's just too hard to make a good impression.
Either way, you want to keep having lots of fun with a special someone and you know that going on original dates is perhaps the very best tool to accomplish that.
But Finding Unique and Creative Date Ideas Is The Hard Part!
Let's face it, trying to come up with cool unique date ideas is tough!
Honestly, it could take you hours searching only to come up with average ideas like: "spend the day at the beach or cook dinner at home." These ideas are 'okay' but there are much better ideas.
And that's where I come in.
You see, after realizing that people are starving for new and refreshing ways to spend time together, I decided to sit down, recall and write down all the fun-filled dates I've had with my wife Athena over the years. The result is a quality collection of date ideas from friends, family and myself.
But Why Should You Listen To Me and My Dating Ideas?
My name is Michael Webb.
And for the last 12 years I've been teaching people how to have fulfilling and successful relationships that last a lifetime through the power of romance.
In fact, because of some of my dating and romance ideas, media around the world have taken to calling me "The World's Most Romantic Man," "America's Romance Expert," "Mr. Romance," "The Martha Stewart of Romance" and other interesting monikers.
I don't necessarily agree with the titles, but I do aim to be the world's most loving husband to my wife of 17 years, Athena.
Not to mention I have been featured in media countless times.
Including every major newspaper in the United States, dozens of magazines and over 500 radio and TV shows such as Oprah, The 700 Club and Men Are From Mars / Women Are From Venus, sharing my tips and secrets with millions of viewers worldwide.
In addition, I am also a bestselling author of 11 books on love, romance and relationships.
My first book, "The Romantic's Guide" is a national bestseller. It was released in February 2000 and is already in its sixth printing.
All in all, I am regarded in the media as one of the nation's top experts on love, dating and relationship matters. So YOU KNOW you're in good hands with my date ideas.
Want to know more? Click here!
How To Become An Alpha Male!
The Lazy Man's Way To Easy Sex And Romance With 20 Or More Women A Month.
Dear Friend,
Alone on a Saturday night, watching Friends re-runs and fantasizing about Jennifer Aniston. For years, that's what I called my love-life.
I was 22 years old. So broke I didn't have two pennies to rub together. So embarrassed about by my body that I wouldn't take my shirt off unless I was alone. And after four years at a major party college... I was still a virgin.
Sure, I dated a few women (other guy's sloppy seconds), but even they never returned my phone calls.
And anytime I'd make a few female friends, it always ended up the same: I'd follow them around like a dog, jumping at the chance to do them a favor or listen to their problems... hoping somehow it would lead to sex, but…
Behind My Back They Just Giggled
And Called Me Their Emotional Tampon.
About the only thing I had going for me was my brain. You see, I'd always been fascinated by psychology and 'silent mind control' techniques... you know the 'hypnotic' stuff big advertisers use to make you happily open your wallet (and earn billions doing, by the way).
My thinking was, if they can use this stuff to figure out what people want to buy, why can't the same techniques be used to reveal...
What Makes Women
Go After Certain Men?
I figured it was probably a waste of my time, but I kept on with my research anyway... for 4 years. And what I uncovered changed my love-life in a big, big way.
You see, I went from this depressed, timid guy who always seemed to be wearing 'invisible underwear' around women...
To suddenly finding myself in one 'can’t-miss' situation after another... where hot, young girls were approaching me... and then literally begging to take me home for X-rated sex!
I'm not kidding.
And It Was So Easy, I'm Genuinely Stumped
Why More Guys Haven't Come Across These Secrets
I mean, it wasn't like I changed anything about my basic personality. I still had no money, drove around in a rust-bucket and had less experience between the sheets than a 16 year-old.
All I did was apply the "underground" psychological principles I had discovered. It wasn't hard... and... anyone can do it. That's because I found out these techniques are based on powerful 'mind' principles you are born with - and are available to all of us.
What that means is, it doesn’t matter how old (or young) you are, if you're dead-broke or even if you have physical features that you think are turning women off...
Whatever Your Excuse Is,
These Principles Still Work
Just like advertising never fails in getting all sorts of different people to buy.
It's been nearly two decades since I first discovered these techniques, and it's been one hell of an emotionally... and... sexually satisfying ride.
These days I sleep every night next to the woman of my dreams (something I never thought would happen). And spend much of my time teaching other men...
The Secrets of 'Magnetically' Attracting Women To You...
Without Ever Chasing Them Down...
And Without Ever Having To Approach Them!
You see, once you have these secrets all the 'work' of meeting women will be done for you...automatically! You can just 'flip on' your magnetic powers of attraction... so to speak... and instantly bring sex, romance and more roaring into your life!
And this isn't some New Age theory crap. It's based on the same hush-hush psychological tactics advertisers have used for centuries to get filthy rich. They work for anyone, anywhere and at any time (no matter how desperate you think your situation is right now).
Not too long ago, I packaged up all these secrets in a guide I called How To Become An Alpha Male.
It’s the no-risk, never-fail blueprint on how to 'magnetically' attract an endless flow of horny, ready-for-sex women to you... without ever having to play their games or deal with rejection.
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Dear Friend,
Alone on a Saturday night, watching Friends re-runs and fantasizing about Jennifer Aniston. For years, that's what I called my love-life.
I was 22 years old. So broke I didn't have two pennies to rub together. So embarrassed about by my body that I wouldn't take my shirt off unless I was alone. And after four years at a major party college... I was still a virgin.
Sure, I dated a few women (other guy's sloppy seconds), but even they never returned my phone calls.
And anytime I'd make a few female friends, it always ended up the same: I'd follow them around like a dog, jumping at the chance to do them a favor or listen to their problems... hoping somehow it would lead to sex, but…
Behind My Back They Just Giggled
And Called Me Their Emotional Tampon.
About the only thing I had going for me was my brain. You see, I'd always been fascinated by psychology and 'silent mind control' techniques... you know the 'hypnotic' stuff big advertisers use to make you happily open your wallet (and earn billions doing, by the way).
My thinking was, if they can use this stuff to figure out what people want to buy, why can't the same techniques be used to reveal...
What Makes Women
Go After Certain Men?
I figured it was probably a waste of my time, but I kept on with my research anyway... for 4 years. And what I uncovered changed my love-life in a big, big way.
You see, I went from this depressed, timid guy who always seemed to be wearing 'invisible underwear' around women...
To suddenly finding myself in one 'can’t-miss' situation after another... where hot, young girls were approaching me... and then literally begging to take me home for X-rated sex!
I'm not kidding.
And It Was So Easy, I'm Genuinely Stumped
Why More Guys Haven't Come Across These Secrets
I mean, it wasn't like I changed anything about my basic personality. I still had no money, drove around in a rust-bucket and had less experience between the sheets than a 16 year-old.
All I did was apply the "underground" psychological principles I had discovered. It wasn't hard... and... anyone can do it. That's because I found out these techniques are based on powerful 'mind' principles you are born with - and are available to all of us.
What that means is, it doesn’t matter how old (or young) you are, if you're dead-broke or even if you have physical features that you think are turning women off...
Whatever Your Excuse Is,
These Principles Still Work
Just like advertising never fails in getting all sorts of different people to buy.
It's been nearly two decades since I first discovered these techniques, and it's been one hell of an emotionally... and... sexually satisfying ride.
These days I sleep every night next to the woman of my dreams (something I never thought would happen). And spend much of my time teaching other men...
The Secrets of 'Magnetically' Attracting Women To You...
Without Ever Chasing Them Down...
And Without Ever Having To Approach Them!
You see, once you have these secrets all the 'work' of meeting women will be done for you...automatically! You can just 'flip on' your magnetic powers of attraction... so to speak... and instantly bring sex, romance and more roaring into your life!
And this isn't some New Age theory crap. It's based on the same hush-hush psychological tactics advertisers have used for centuries to get filthy rich. They work for anyone, anywhere and at any time (no matter how desperate you think your situation is right now).
Not too long ago, I packaged up all these secrets in a guide I called How To Become An Alpha Male.
It’s the no-risk, never-fail blueprint on how to 'magnetically' attract an endless flow of horny, ready-for-sex women to you... without ever having to play their games or deal with rejection.
Want to know more.....or would you prefer to sit alone in front of the TV for the rest of your life watching more re-runs of "Friends"?
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"How To Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A Date With You - NOW"
Give me a minute of your time right now, and let me PROVE to you that regardless of your looks, age and financial standing – YOU can make young beautiful women attracted to you, seduce them at your leisure and make them fall in love with you with frightening regularity.
After reading what I have to say, other guys will look and wonder HOW… WHY… They’ll worship you for being able to attract and seduce women at your will - so easily.
We aren’t talking about magic here or baloney either… We’re talking about PROVEN simple steps you can take that will make a woman fall for you… big time. Every time. And with scientific like success rates!
You see, attraction is MORE of a SCIENCE than an art form.
See, as humans, we all have two ways of thinking. Number 1 is using logic or our conscious minds. Number 2 is using emotion or our subconscious minds.
The great thing about seducing women is that they are HARD WIRED to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings that are the same across ALL women… They cannot help it. That’s why so many women fall for the same “ass hole” guys. Their logical brains are telling them that they’ll be cheated on. That they’ll be messed around. That they’d be better off with the nice guy. And they are usually right, but women are RUN by their emotional side of the brain. They can’t help but seek out the excitement, the alpha male, the bad boy.
Now I’m not for one moment trying to suggest you should become a “bad boy” ass hole, but I’m DEFINITELY saying that if you are frustrated in the dating game, chances are you’ve tried the nice guy way already and it simply doesn’t work at anything other than becoming their “friend” which is the LAST thing you want. PLEASE NOTE: I am NOT suggesting you should become a “bad boy”… Read on…
With my unique system I can make you trigger ALL of the emotional attraction switches in the female mind within 7 minutes – without acting like you are somebody else – and get the same success that those few same guys get, all for yourself.
It’s as simple as this…
If you do and say certain things in a certain way then women WILL become attracted to you. They can’t help it. Women have emotionally evolved brains that DENY logic and make decisions based solely on feelings – when it comes to who they are attracted to.
And you know what evolution has done for you also?
Made it so that YOUR looks are only 20% of what a woman is looking for. And if you happen to be above a certain “acceptable” levels of looks (and let me tell you, this level is low, lots of UGLY guys make the grade) then you can bypass this 20% TOTALLY and make the whole of a woman’s attraction be about WHO you are and HOW you act, instead of what you look like, or how much you get paid…
Let me state that more simply.
Use my techniques and it will NOT matter if you are good looking or not, whether you are rich or not, whether you are bald or fat.. ALL of that WON’T MATTER ONE LITTLE BIT. You can “turn off” that side of her brain and have almost any woman in your spell.
Sound good? Click here…
After reading what I have to say, other guys will look and wonder HOW… WHY… They’ll worship you for being able to attract and seduce women at your will - so easily.
We aren’t talking about magic here or baloney either… We’re talking about PROVEN simple steps you can take that will make a woman fall for you… big time. Every time. And with scientific like success rates!
You see, attraction is MORE of a SCIENCE than an art form.
See, as humans, we all have two ways of thinking. Number 1 is using logic or our conscious minds. Number 2 is using emotion or our subconscious minds.
The great thing about seducing women is that they are HARD WIRED to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings that are the same across ALL women… They cannot help it. That’s why so many women fall for the same “ass hole” guys. Their logical brains are telling them that they’ll be cheated on. That they’ll be messed around. That they’d be better off with the nice guy. And they are usually right, but women are RUN by their emotional side of the brain. They can’t help but seek out the excitement, the alpha male, the bad boy.
Now I’m not for one moment trying to suggest you should become a “bad boy” ass hole, but I’m DEFINITELY saying that if you are frustrated in the dating game, chances are you’ve tried the nice guy way already and it simply doesn’t work at anything other than becoming their “friend” which is the LAST thing you want. PLEASE NOTE: I am NOT suggesting you should become a “bad boy”… Read on…
With my unique system I can make you trigger ALL of the emotional attraction switches in the female mind within 7 minutes – without acting like you are somebody else – and get the same success that those few same guys get, all for yourself.
It’s as simple as this…
If you do and say certain things in a certain way then women WILL become attracted to you. They can’t help it. Women have emotionally evolved brains that DENY logic and make decisions based solely on feelings – when it comes to who they are attracted to.
And you know what evolution has done for you also?
Made it so that YOUR looks are only 20% of what a woman is looking for. And if you happen to be above a certain “acceptable” levels of looks (and let me tell you, this level is low, lots of UGLY guys make the grade) then you can bypass this 20% TOTALLY and make the whole of a woman’s attraction be about WHO you are and HOW you act, instead of what you look like, or how much you get paid…
Let me state that more simply.
Use my techniques and it will NOT matter if you are good looking or not, whether you are rich or not, whether you are bald or fat.. ALL of that WON’T MATTER ONE LITTLE BIT. You can “turn off” that side of her brain and have almost any woman in your spell.
Sound good? Click here…
What You Absolutely Must Know About the One You Are With!
Dear Friend,
How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.
Do you know why your mate does or doesn't attend church? Do you know how they really think about the way you dress?
Have you ever asked your partner what are the three most sensitive parts on their body?
"An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place
if couples asked each other the right questions"
Several months ago, a friend of mine discovered that her husband was once a heroin addict. When she asked him why he didn't tell her before, he replied, "You never asked!"
I have put together 1,000 of the most important questions couples should ask each other. These are questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your most embarrassing moment".
"My girlfriend and I avoided discussing certain topics like our thoughts about sex, our religious differences and her spending habits. These 1000 questions have helped up to open up to one another in a way I didn't think was possible." – Vincent Rawley
"1000 Questions For Couples"
There are hundreds of fun "getting to know you" questions but there are also important questions that most people don't even think of asking but are absolutely necessary if you want to have a happy relationship.
I've known of people who never told their mate about being arrested for molesting children, that they had DUI convictions, that they were sterile or had a STD. Admittedly, those are difficult questions to ask someone. But, if you are going through a book of questions, it is much easier to bring difficult subjects out into the open.
All of these questions will help you to really know the thoughts, feelings and desires of the one you are with. After going through these questions, you will really know the things your sweetheart is passionate about. You will know how you can give them much joy and happiness. You will also discover what irritates them and makes them blue.
"My husband and I have been emailing 3-4 of the questions and our answers each day for the last month and it has had the most wonderful effect on our relationship. I felt that we had just been 'coasting' for a while but now we are more in love than we have been in our 17 years together. And the resulting passion has been amazing." – Barbara Koen
While these questions are an absolute must for couples to ask while dating, over 700 of the questions are crucial for married couples to discuss too.
Click Here!
How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.
Do you know why your mate does or doesn't attend church? Do you know how they really think about the way you dress?
Have you ever asked your partner what are the three most sensitive parts on their body?
"An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place
if couples asked each other the right questions"
Several months ago, a friend of mine discovered that her husband was once a heroin addict. When she asked him why he didn't tell her before, he replied, "You never asked!"
I have put together 1,000 of the most important questions couples should ask each other. These are questions that go beyond small talk and simply making conversation like you will find in most "questions" books. You will NOT find questions like "if you were a color, what color would you be" or "what is your most embarrassing moment".
"My girlfriend and I avoided discussing certain topics like our thoughts about sex, our religious differences and her spending habits. These 1000 questions have helped up to open up to one another in a way I didn't think was possible." – Vincent Rawley
"1000 Questions For Couples"
There are hundreds of fun "getting to know you" questions but there are also important questions that most people don't even think of asking but are absolutely necessary if you want to have a happy relationship.
I've known of people who never told their mate about being arrested for molesting children, that they had DUI convictions, that they were sterile or had a STD. Admittedly, those are difficult questions to ask someone. But, if you are going through a book of questions, it is much easier to bring difficult subjects out into the open.
All of these questions will help you to really know the thoughts, feelings and desires of the one you are with. After going through these questions, you will really know the things your sweetheart is passionate about. You will know how you can give them much joy and happiness. You will also discover what irritates them and makes them blue.
"My husband and I have been emailing 3-4 of the questions and our answers each day for the last month and it has had the most wonderful effect on our relationship. I felt that we had just been 'coasting' for a while but now we are more in love than we have been in our 17 years together. And the resulting passion has been amazing." – Barbara Koen
While these questions are an absolute must for couples to ask while dating, over 700 of the questions are crucial for married couples to discuss too.
Click Here!
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